Apparently my vaccination post may have been offensive to some. Let me first say, that these are just my thoughts and opinions. My blog has always been my outlet for saying what I want. I know I have strong opinions about many things, and I am usually not very shy in expressing them. But let me say that my intent is not to be judgmental of people who choose to do things differently or believe other things. My purpose was maybe to encourage people to simply look into what is being injected into their babies. I'm not saying my way is the only way. Especially when it comes to health care, I'm saying the opposite. I'm saying medical care shouldn't be one size fits all. What works for my kid may not work for your kid. If you decide full vaccination is what is best for your child... then by all means that is what you should do. I was just trying to encourage educated decisions. For that, I will not apologize.
The same goes for parenting. My thoughts on parenting should be meaningless to everyone else. Every single kid on this planet is different and there are a million different ways to raise them. I absolutely do not feel like my ideas are the best or only ways of doing things. And I am sorry if I ever came across that way.
But at the same time, this is my blog and I have no desire to cater what I say to anyone else but myself.
I have felt like doing this for a while now, but I think my blogging days are numbered. Nathan loves that I have kind of chronicled our life over the past few years, but I think it may be time to go to the good old fashioned personal journal. I will still have a venue for keeping you updated with pictures of the babe and what's going on with our family, but it will be different from past blogs... much more straightforward, much less opinion. I have always valued hearing other people's opinions, even if I disagree... but maybe not everyone else feels that way.
And in all honesty... in a matter of days/weeks... my world is going to be consumed with something much greater than a blog. I will no longer be blogging about it... but doing it... which is what I've been waiting for, for years now.
Thanks, Kelly, for always being so honest and sharing with us! You have strong opinions, but honestly, I wish someone had shared something like this with us when our first child was born. You are right that parents should be educated and know what is going into their babies. Beyond that, it is their decision, but doctors are not interested in educating people on each vaccination so people should look into themselves.
ReplyDeleteHaving a child with Autism, we have discovered that most pediatricians are clueless when it comes to signs, symptoms etc. and certainly know nothing about treatment. We have learned to trust less, and educate ourselves more. Children could be greatly helped by parents educating one another. We all have something to learn!
So, Kelly, keep in mind that baby Morgan is going to be napping a lot, and you might feel isolated and need an outlet. If that is the case.....keep blogging! Your parents would love it and those of us far away can stay informed. Thanks as always......praying for your delivery.
Kelly-- I understand how you are feeling-- but please don't stop blogging!!!! I enjoy hearing about how you are going to do things and how you come to your choices (even if its not what I would do-- I do enjoy it) and if I ever do feel like you are talking down to me-- I just remember that you are only explaining your thoughts-- so dont stop!!!
ReplyDeleteAND you look wonderful!
Kelly - Let me first say that I will understand when you can no longer take the time to blog because you are very busy (happily) with your little one. But, I must say, that I will miss reading it. Every time I log on, I check to see if anything is new...I have thoroughly enjoyed reading about your journey.
ReplyDeleteAlso, while your opinions on vaccinations are totally different than what we did with our children, I appreciated reading your thoughts and opinions because I agree...there is no simple one-size-fits-all answer. And sometimes we can be led down a path believing something is completely safe when in truth it is not...could be that it is the agenda that suits the doctor, drug maker or our government. I think you & Nathan are wise beyond your years for educating yourselves, for making the courageous choices you have made...and your babies (I believe God will bless you with more) will be blessed to have you as parents. Be strong...you are doing the best for your baby and that is ALL that matters. Hugs - Sue
Kelly, I'm sorry to hear that someone felt the need to complain about your post. I think that's just ...well.. nevermind what I think about it. What I wanted to tell you was that I think you should ignore it. You are always clear in the posts that share your choices or opinions that you don't intend to offend or force your views on others. I think it's a shame that you were made to feel the need to write an apology even after stating that in the original post.
ReplyDeleteAlso, I agree with what was said in the other comments. I check you blog often to see what's going on in your life and enjoy hearing your opinions. I understand blogging less in the future because of being busy with the baby but I'd hate to see you "chased off" by negative comments.
~Lana