This morning I had my 26 week appointment with my midwife. And I actually had questions for the first time. Everything went well. She said that Baby M is growing right on track, and his heart beat sounded great! Praise God. Also this morning, I had my gestational diabetes screening. You have to drink this really sugary orange drink then have your blood checked an hour later. The first sip of the orange stuff was ok... but getting it all down within five minutes was not easy. Yuck. They'll let me know if the results came back abnormal.
We are going to get registered for our childbirth class soon. We are not doing a series of classes at the hospital, but using a childbirth educator and doula recommended by my midwife. I'll also probably take a breast feeding class at the hospital depending on how much the childbirth class covers. I also found out today, that we will be able to donate the baby's cord blood. Banking it would be nice, but we're going to go ahead and donate it to the international registry. I wasn't certain whether or not this would be an option for us, but it is. We trust will use it for something great and to His glory.
I asked my midwife about a pediatrician recommendation. I told her that our struggle would be in finding one who would be ok with using an alternative vaccination schedule. She thought the pediatrician that I am currently considering would probably be one most open to using an alternative schedule. That was good to hear.
Another thing I had a question about was delaying the cord being clamped by about 1-3 minutes or so. I was very happy to hear my midwife say, "Oh don't worry... we're in no hurry to camp the cord. It also stops the nurses from taking our baby!" Hearing that keeping the baby attached to the cord and close to the mom at birth was standard procedure with my midwife (and that the nurses already know this is the way her birth's go) was music to my ears.
The only thing that did not go quite as well is with my weight gain. Now remember, my total weight gain so far has been five pounds. Well... my weight gain over the past four and a half weeks was 8 lbs. Eek. That was a bit of a bummer! However, I'm not going to get too bent out of shape about it. For one thing... my eating habits have not changed and I have been walking at the mall 20-30, 3-4 day (my PT doesn't want me walking more than 30 minutes.) And I was expecting a bigger weight gain because my belly has just felt heavier (the baby now should weigh just under two pounds.) The normal weight gain at this point is between 16-22 lbs... so with my total at 13 lbs., we're not too concerned at this point. I'm going to try to be a bit more careful to make sure I don't end up with another 8 lb weight gain. And on a side note, a friend of mine had a similar situation where her weight gain was nice and low, then one month she had a random 7 lb weight gain. Baby could have also had a bit of a growth spurt. Regardless, I'm not going to stress about it, just do what I can to make sure it doesn't happen again.
And my friend, Kim, in BG welcomed her little boy into the world yesterday! She had some complications during pregnancy and had been on bed rest in a hospital in N'ville for quite a few weeks now. They had to delivery early (planned), but her precious little boy was born perfectly healthy yesterday, and they are both doing well. This was a huge answered prayer for her family! Welcome to the world baby Aiden!!
Kim's baby
Friday, February 26, 2010
Tuesday, February 23, 2010
PT, Pearly Whites, Pediatricians
I had physical therapy again today. We continued to tweak my exercises, and my PT did some manual therapy... stretching and pushing and moving my pelvis. I have not had a bad night since the first time she did the manual therapy a week ago. Between that, the strengthening, and walking... we're getting this pelvic joint pain thing under control. Thank God! I was really concerned about how I would make it through the third trimester and labor.
I also went to the dentist today. Exciting, I know. Between the pregnancy hormones and fertility drugs, my hygienist talked about the pregnancy gingivitis that surely existed in my mouth. Open Mouth. None! That's right. My pearly whites didn't fall victim to either gingivitis causing occurrence. Like I said... exciting, right?!
Some say the third trimester starts at 27 weeks other say 28 weeks. Either way... that means I am very close to being two thirds of the way through this pregnancy. I'm still not sure how that is even possible.
Oh and tomorrow I'm hoping to schedule an appointment with our potential pediatrician. We still have high hopes of moving back to BG soon, but we still live here and until I know otherwise... I need to plan and live accordingly. I have two that I am especially interested in. I have several questions, but the big one will be, "How do you feel about an alternative vaccination schedule?" Ha. That's going to be the big one. I'm hoping to save that for last. Maybe... warm her up a bit... get her to like us and want to be our pediatrician... then ask the potentially deal breaking question. We are not looking at an extreme alternative schedule, delaying a few here, cutting a couple there. Hopefully she'll respect our decision and research and be willing to take us on as patients. If not, I'll move on down my list! I trust that God will give us the right medical care provider for our child.
OK... time for bed! Have a great Wednesday. Oh and tomorrow I will no longer be in triple digits in my countdown to baby day... that's right... tomorrow we're down to 99 days until DD!!
I also went to the dentist today. Exciting, I know. Between the pregnancy hormones and fertility drugs, my hygienist talked about the pregnancy gingivitis that surely existed in my mouth. Open Mouth. None! That's right. My pearly whites didn't fall victim to either gingivitis causing occurrence. Like I said... exciting, right?!
Some say the third trimester starts at 27 weeks other say 28 weeks. Either way... that means I am very close to being two thirds of the way through this pregnancy. I'm still not sure how that is even possible.
Oh and tomorrow I'm hoping to schedule an appointment with our potential pediatrician. We still have high hopes of moving back to BG soon, but we still live here and until I know otherwise... I need to plan and live accordingly. I have two that I am especially interested in. I have several questions, but the big one will be, "How do you feel about an alternative vaccination schedule?" Ha. That's going to be the big one. I'm hoping to save that for last. Maybe... warm her up a bit... get her to like us and want to be our pediatrician... then ask the potentially deal breaking question. We are not looking at an extreme alternative schedule, delaying a few here, cutting a couple there. Hopefully she'll respect our decision and research and be willing to take us on as patients. If not, I'll move on down my list! I trust that God will give us the right medical care provider for our child.
OK... time for bed! Have a great Wednesday. Oh and tomorrow I will no longer be in triple digits in my countdown to baby day... that's right... tomorrow we're down to 99 days until DD!!
Sunday, February 21, 2010
A Few Firsts
Last Thursday marked my 25th week of pregnancy. Everyone told me that the second trimester would drag on. But it really hasn't. I'm three weeks from my third trimester already. While I cannot wait to meet our baby... its also kind of sad because that means the first year of her life is going to fly by just as fast!
This week held a couple firsts. Friday evening I had my first Braxton Hicks contraction. I also had a cramp in my leg that night... which both things can be a result of not having enough water. I thought I had been drinking plenty that evening, but you never know. Just to be safe... I'm going to keep pushing the water, especially in the evening. But... the BG contraction was definitely cool. Yes... I realize that I will not be using the word cool to describe contractions for long... but it was a tiny, tiny, tiny little taste of what's to come.
The second, first was we actually saw the baby moving for the first time. I'm sure I could have seen the movements before, but I never really laid down to watch while I was feeling movements. So I laid on the bed, and almost immediately, I saw my a bump in my belly shift. Woah!!! It was so cool. Nathan was in the shower, so as soon as he got out... I called him in to watch. Sure enough... we both saw the movements. It was beautiful.
Then... last night I fell asleep before Nathan. While I was asleep he had his hand on my tummy and could feel the baby moving. It was a very special bonding moment for Nathan. It was a moment just between baby and daddy while mommy was off in dream land. It touched my heart.
The physical therapy really seems to be helping. I have not had a bad night since last Monday. And I think I may start doing some aqua therapy... which I would LOVE! I feel like my belly has grown 3 lbs in the last two days. The thought of being in water... with the pressure off my pelvis just sounds wonderful. Hopefully that will work out.
I guess that's all that's new for now. I hope you each have a wonderful week!
This week held a couple firsts. Friday evening I had my first Braxton Hicks contraction. I also had a cramp in my leg that night... which both things can be a result of not having enough water. I thought I had been drinking plenty that evening, but you never know. Just to be safe... I'm going to keep pushing the water, especially in the evening. But... the BG contraction was definitely cool. Yes... I realize that I will not be using the word cool to describe contractions for long... but it was a tiny, tiny, tiny little taste of what's to come.
The second, first was we actually saw the baby moving for the first time. I'm sure I could have seen the movements before, but I never really laid down to watch while I was feeling movements. So I laid on the bed, and almost immediately, I saw my a bump in my belly shift. Woah!!! It was so cool. Nathan was in the shower, so as soon as he got out... I called him in to watch. Sure enough... we both saw the movements. It was beautiful.
Then... last night I fell asleep before Nathan. While I was asleep he had his hand on my tummy and could feel the baby moving. It was a very special bonding moment for Nathan. It was a moment just between baby and daddy while mommy was off in dream land. It touched my heart.
The physical therapy really seems to be helping. I have not had a bad night since last Monday. And I think I may start doing some aqua therapy... which I would LOVE! I feel like my belly has grown 3 lbs in the last two days. The thought of being in water... with the pressure off my pelvis just sounds wonderful. Hopefully that will work out.
I guess that's all that's new for now. I hope you each have a wonderful week!
Friday, February 19, 2010
FuzziBunz Vs. BumGenius3.0
Last week I ordered my first two cloth diapers. One is a FuzziBunz pocket diaper and the other is a BumGenius 3.0 pocket diaper. They are very similar in their design and functionality. The major differences are that FB has snaps and BG has velcro (although they do have a slightly more expensive diaper with snaps) and that the pocket opening in the back of the FB is open, while the BG has an overlay over the pocket opening. You kind of have to see it to understand it... which is why I went ahead and bought one of each. Also the BG is one size fits all and the FB is the perfect fit size where we'll have a stash of Small and Mediums (most kids are potty trained before they need large.) The FB comes in a one size fits all, but my understanding is they are on the bulky side.
In doing my initial evaluation, there was not one that stood out over the other. So when Nathan came home... I gave Nathan the basic understanding of the diaper then asked which one he preferred at this point. Initially, we both thought the FB. But as we talked through it, we have kind of started leaning towards the BG.
Let me also say, that both FB and BG have excellent reviews. Cloth diapering families who use BG love them, and cloth diapering families who use FB love them. So I think we'd be happy either way.
The BG definitely seems to provide a better fit for a little one. The small FB is still fairly large, where the BG, being adjustable starts smaller. And it has velcro the whole way around the waist. You are not limited at all to the positions of the snaps. Just like a disposable, you can adjust the waist to a perfect fit. And to protect the velcro, the BG has laundry tabs to attach the vecro tabs to while washing. And if something were to happen to the velcro, say it wears out over time... that's an easier fix than trying to fix a snap, if that is even possible. But then again... the snaps will be nice for a toddler because they would make it more difficult for the baby to remove the diaper themselves if they so choose.
So here is what we decided. If we did the FB, we'd have to have a stash of small and medium to get us through the diapering years. That would be between 25-30 diapers. If we did the BG, we'd have to have a stash of 15 one size diapers. So... I think we will initially go with the BumGenius3.0. Then, as Baby M enters toddlerhood reevaluate. And if at that point we want to go ahead and get some additional FB, then we are still not buying any more diapers than we would using FB from the beginning. Does that make sense?
Oh but one thing I noticed is that I really like the FB insert (that goes into the pocket for absorbency.) So we will also likely get a stash of FB inserts to use as well.
Now... I'm still planning on washing both diapers up to do a laundry based evaluation. And I'm thinking I might ask Linda if I can test one out with Anya!! I want to make sure that they perform equally in terms of keeping moisture off of baby's skin. But based on the many, many reviews I've read... they both seem to do their job and do it well.
In doing my initial evaluation, there was not one that stood out over the other. So when Nathan came home... I gave Nathan the basic understanding of the diaper then asked which one he preferred at this point. Initially, we both thought the FB. But as we talked through it, we have kind of started leaning towards the BG.
Let me also say, that both FB and BG have excellent reviews. Cloth diapering families who use BG love them, and cloth diapering families who use FB love them. So I think we'd be happy either way.
The BG definitely seems to provide a better fit for a little one. The small FB is still fairly large, where the BG, being adjustable starts smaller. And it has velcro the whole way around the waist. You are not limited at all to the positions of the snaps. Just like a disposable, you can adjust the waist to a perfect fit. And to protect the velcro, the BG has laundry tabs to attach the vecro tabs to while washing. And if something were to happen to the velcro, say it wears out over time... that's an easier fix than trying to fix a snap, if that is even possible. But then again... the snaps will be nice for a toddler because they would make it more difficult for the baby to remove the diaper themselves if they so choose.
So here is what we decided. If we did the FB, we'd have to have a stash of small and medium to get us through the diapering years. That would be between 25-30 diapers. If we did the BG, we'd have to have a stash of 15 one size diapers. So... I think we will initially go with the BumGenius3.0. Then, as Baby M enters toddlerhood reevaluate. And if at that point we want to go ahead and get some additional FB, then we are still not buying any more diapers than we would using FB from the beginning. Does that make sense?
Oh but one thing I noticed is that I really like the FB insert (that goes into the pocket for absorbency.) So we will also likely get a stash of FB inserts to use as well.
Now... I'm still planning on washing both diapers up to do a laundry based evaluation. And I'm thinking I might ask Linda if I can test one out with Anya!! I want to make sure that they perform equally in terms of keeping moisture off of baby's skin. But based on the many, many reviews I've read... they both seem to do their job and do it well.
Monday, February 15, 2010
Why I'm Choosing NOT To Use An Infant Carrier
First of all, I wanted to share a blessing I received today. I went in for my second PT session today. It went very well. We did more exercises, stretching, and she did some manual manipulation. I won't get on a soap box... While our health insurance is the best and most expensive plan offered... co pays and co insurance rates can still add up quickly. Today, the girl working the front desk said that they called to verify my benefits and saw that it would cost $35/session. Not horrible... but going two times a week quickly adds up to $280/month. So my PT decided to waive everything that my insurance won't cover. So now it will cost me $0/month. I can't tell you how kind and generous that is. I know it won't make a dent in their pocket... but that was a huge blessing for me.
While we are still going to pursue every opportunity we find to get us back to BG, ASAP... I'm thinking it might not be time just yet. Based solely on what God has given us in terms of medical care for this baby, I'm thinking maybe the move will come this summer after Baby M is born.
Now, because some interest has been shown in my choice not to use an infant carrier, I'll go ahead and explain a bit.
While I understand why and how an infant carrier can be super convenient, we are going to go with the "Baby Wearing" route. {Disclaimer: My personal opinion... in no way do I pass judgment on those who use infant carriers!!}
1. As I mentioned before, I like to do things simply. I don't want a bunch of baby gadgets and toys with lights and batteries. We'd like to take a more simple, more organic approach. If something is only going to be used for a few months... I'd like to try to pass on it. Those car seats with a 10-20 lb baby in it are heavy and awkward! I imagine I'd use it for maybe two or three months before I was sick of lugging it around.
2. There are many benefits of baby wearing. You can google the benefits on your own if you'd like {or you can read this or this } One benefit I particular am fond of is the bonding infant wearing promotes. I know that babies and mommies are still bonded just fine without infant wearing, but its an extra way to promote that physical touch and bonding.
3. I think it would be easy to allow the baby to be in the carrier... in the bucket position for too long. You put the baby in the carrier, load up in the car, drive to where you're going, do your shopping or whatever, drive home, unload car. Sure you may take baby out for a few minutes here and there, but I think often times... it adds up to quick a bit of time in the same position.
4. When you wearing a baby out in public... there's going to be less opportunity for the baby to be touched by stranger's germy hands. I'm not a germ-o-phob... I don't even use alcohol hand sanitizer (I use a natural hand cleaner from Whole Foods that is awesome!!) But I don't want strange hands on my baby.
5. Safety. A recent study was published about the number of accidents related to infant carrier seats. Shopping carts are not meant to hold those things. They are often set on dangerous or unsteady surfaces. I don't think there is a single mom or dad out there who intentionally put their baby carrier somewhere they didn't think was safe. But accidents and thoughtlessness happens. And how about the number of recalls on everything. In December... a bunch of those seats were recalled because the handles would snap and fall off!
6. I know it may take a little more thought and may not be quite as convenient opting not to use a infant carrier... but women managed for years and years and years before the infant carrier was a standard piece of baby equipment. My mom managed three kids close in age without having one. It may be a little more work, but its more work I'm willing to do.
7. Its great exercise!
8. And as far as the winter goes... I still have one of those bundle things for my car seat that stays in the car. Baby M will be six months old before the temperature really starts dropping... and if its that cold... we'll likely stay home.
Like I said before... there are many more benefits to infant wearing. And while I'm not a complete attachment parenting person... as our bed will remain for me and Nathan, no kids allowed... I do tend to gravitate towards that type of thought.
There you have it.
While we are still going to pursue every opportunity we find to get us back to BG, ASAP... I'm thinking it might not be time just yet. Based solely on what God has given us in terms of medical care for this baby, I'm thinking maybe the move will come this summer after Baby M is born.
Now, because some interest has been shown in my choice not to use an infant carrier, I'll go ahead and explain a bit.
While I understand why and how an infant carrier can be super convenient, we are going to go with the "Baby Wearing" route. {Disclaimer: My personal opinion... in no way do I pass judgment on those who use infant carriers!!}
1. As I mentioned before, I like to do things simply. I don't want a bunch of baby gadgets and toys with lights and batteries. We'd like to take a more simple, more organic approach. If something is only going to be used for a few months... I'd like to try to pass on it. Those car seats with a 10-20 lb baby in it are heavy and awkward! I imagine I'd use it for maybe two or three months before I was sick of lugging it around.
2. There are many benefits of baby wearing. You can google the benefits on your own if you'd like {or you can read this or this } One benefit I particular am fond of is the bonding infant wearing promotes. I know that babies and mommies are still bonded just fine without infant wearing, but its an extra way to promote that physical touch and bonding.
3. I think it would be easy to allow the baby to be in the carrier... in the bucket position for too long. You put the baby in the carrier, load up in the car, drive to where you're going, do your shopping or whatever, drive home, unload car. Sure you may take baby out for a few minutes here and there, but I think often times... it adds up to quick a bit of time in the same position.
4. When you wearing a baby out in public... there's going to be less opportunity for the baby to be touched by stranger's germy hands. I'm not a germ-o-phob... I don't even use alcohol hand sanitizer (I use a natural hand cleaner from Whole Foods that is awesome!!) But I don't want strange hands on my baby.
5. Safety. A recent study was published about the number of accidents related to infant carrier seats. Shopping carts are not meant to hold those things. They are often set on dangerous or unsteady surfaces. I don't think there is a single mom or dad out there who intentionally put their baby carrier somewhere they didn't think was safe. But accidents and thoughtlessness happens. And how about the number of recalls on everything. In December... a bunch of those seats were recalled because the handles would snap and fall off!
6. I know it may take a little more thought and may not be quite as convenient opting not to use a infant carrier... but women managed for years and years and years before the infant carrier was a standard piece of baby equipment. My mom managed three kids close in age without having one. It may be a little more work, but its more work I'm willing to do.
7. Its great exercise!
8. And as far as the winter goes... I still have one of those bundle things for my car seat that stays in the car. Baby M will be six months old before the temperature really starts dropping... and if its that cold... we'll likely stay home.
Like I said before... there are many more benefits to infant wearing. And while I'm not a complete attachment parenting person... as our bed will remain for me and Nathan, no kids allowed... I do tend to gravitate towards that type of thought.
There you have it.
Saturday, February 13, 2010
Saturday Project
This weekend was Nathan's short weekend, meaning he had to work today. I love painting and creating and I haven't done much of that in a while. So I thought I'd take advantage of my day and work on a new art project. One thing I struggle with is I'm never satisfied with anything I do. But, I tried to remember today that art is not perfect. I focused on enjoying the creative process. Here is what I ended up with.
Instead of using normal canvas, I decided I wanted to paint on cork board. I love the look and texture of cork. And I used the colors of our nursery to accent the tree. I can't say I love it, but I think its pretty interesting. And I enjoyed the creative process.
And I wanted to say how much I enjoy the comments! Catherine... thanks for the recommendation. Unfortunately, because we are not using an infant carrier car seat, that wouldn't be an option for us. But thanks!! And since the stroller we chose has multiple seat positions, we'll be able to adjust it when he decides its time to see the world instead of just sleeping through it.
Instead of using normal canvas, I decided I wanted to paint on cork board. I love the look and texture of cork. And I used the colors of our nursery to accent the tree. I can't say I love it, but I think its pretty interesting. And I enjoyed the creative process.
And I wanted to say how much I enjoy the comments! Catherine... thanks for the recommendation. Unfortunately, because we are not using an infant carrier car seat, that wouldn't be an option for us. But thanks!! And since the stroller we chose has multiple seat positions, we'll be able to adjust it when he decides its time to see the world instead of just sleeping through it.
Friday, February 12, 2010
Baby Stuff
First of all, I'd like to welcome my friend Lauren to pregnant-hood! 25 years ago... our mom's were great friends, living next door to one another, both pregnant with baby girls. And now their baby girls are both pregnant at the same time. Its funny how life works out that way. But please say a prayer for Lauren. She is 10 weeks pregnant, and has had very little relief from her 'all-day' sickness. Hopefully as she near the end of her first trimester things will level out so that she can focus on enjoying her pregnancy.
Secondly, let me tell you how much I hate my Pre-natal Cradle Mini Cradle. That is the brand my midwife recommended. Apparently she has never tried one on. I was not happy with it, at all. It was basically a thick strip of elastic with hooks. It offered no support, was uncomfortable, and pushed on my belly in weird places. So while I was running baby related errands with my friend Kendra today, I looked at what Babies R Us had to offer. I settled on the Madela belly band thingy. I tried it on as soon as I got home, and feel much better about this one. We'll see how it works wearing it for more than five minutes, but it definitely seems more supportive and comfortable than the other one. Hopefully it'll help with my current pelvis problems. Last night was a rough night. And after running errands with Kendra for about five hours... I was quite sore!
Lastly, I'd like to share the stroller I have selected for Baby M. For years really, I have been working on finding the perfect stroller. And let me tell you, its not easy. I am finding I'm more a minimalist. I'm not big on gadgets and accessories and toys with lights and batteries. I like simple things, and doing things in a way that I find natural and functional. That's just me. So I have decided not to use an infant car seat carrier. I understand why people like them and use them, but I have my own reasons why we have chosen not to use one. And because we are not using an infant car seat carrier we will not be needing a 'travel system,' just a car seat (which we already have a convertible one for 5-50lbs) and a stroller.
In my search for a perfect stroller, I evaluated our needs and purpose. And I only intend on buying one stroller. Many people end up with one of those BIG full size strollers... then six months later end up getting a smaller, lighter stroller to get them through toddlerhood. Considering our largest car is not that big... I decided to skip the big, expensive full size stroller, and search for the perfect smaller, lighter stroller that will get us from infant through toddlerhood.
Here is what I came up with. The Chicco Liteway Stroller. First I did my online research reading reviews from a variety of sites. I was pretty certain this was the one. Today, I finally got to test drive the Chicco Liteway at Babies R Us. And it is the perfect stroller for us. Here is why:
*It is sturdy, solid, and smooth * It is easy to open and close * It is light and compact * The seat has multiple reclining positions, including flat for an infant. * Accommodates children weighing 1-40 lbs * The foot rest has multiple positions, including straight up to enclose a flat laying infant * It has a three and five point harness system * The seat and siding seems very comfortable and cozy * It has nice, high handle bars * A nice big canopy with a peak a boo window * A basket underneath to hold the basics *
Sure... it doesn't have a big basket, it doesn't have a cup holder for the baby, it doesn't have all the bells and whistles. But as I said before, I like simple and functional. I will be able to use this for trips to the zoo or park, for traveling, or for walks around the neighborhood. In almost 25 years, Nathan and I have yet to show our selves as runners, and I don't see us doing a lot of off roading. If that changes... we'll look into getting a more rugged stroller. But until then... I'm confident this stroller will meet our needs and serve Baby M well.
At the risk of making this post too long... I'm also going to mention a swing that I think I have fallen in love with. I say think because I have not seen one in person. BUT this swing once again goes along with my philosophy of simple and functional. See it here. It is the Arm's Reach Beautiful Sleeper Cocoon Sleeper. There's no music, no 'nature' sounds, no engine. It is simply a swing. It moves in a more gentle, natural motion. And notice how cozy! Most of the reviews that did not rave about this swing, stated that their baby just didn't take to it, which is the case with standard swings. I'm willing to give it a shot considering I have yet to be impressed by any of the standard swings on the market.
Secondly, let me tell you how much I hate my Pre-natal Cradle Mini Cradle. That is the brand my midwife recommended. Apparently she has never tried one on. I was not happy with it, at all. It was basically a thick strip of elastic with hooks. It offered no support, was uncomfortable, and pushed on my belly in weird places. So while I was running baby related errands with my friend Kendra today, I looked at what Babies R Us had to offer. I settled on the Madela belly band thingy. I tried it on as soon as I got home, and feel much better about this one. We'll see how it works wearing it for more than five minutes, but it definitely seems more supportive and comfortable than the other one. Hopefully it'll help with my current pelvis problems. Last night was a rough night. And after running errands with Kendra for about five hours... I was quite sore!
Lastly, I'd like to share the stroller I have selected for Baby M. For years really, I have been working on finding the perfect stroller. And let me tell you, its not easy. I am finding I'm more a minimalist. I'm not big on gadgets and accessories and toys with lights and batteries. I like simple things, and doing things in a way that I find natural and functional. That's just me. So I have decided not to use an infant car seat carrier. I understand why people like them and use them, but I have my own reasons why we have chosen not to use one. And because we are not using an infant car seat carrier we will not be needing a 'travel system,' just a car seat (which we already have a convertible one for 5-50lbs) and a stroller.
In my search for a perfect stroller, I evaluated our needs and purpose. And I only intend on buying one stroller. Many people end up with one of those BIG full size strollers... then six months later end up getting a smaller, lighter stroller to get them through toddlerhood. Considering our largest car is not that big... I decided to skip the big, expensive full size stroller, and search for the perfect smaller, lighter stroller that will get us from infant through toddlerhood.
Here is what I came up with. The Chicco Liteway Stroller. First I did my online research reading reviews from a variety of sites. I was pretty certain this was the one. Today, I finally got to test drive the Chicco Liteway at Babies R Us. And it is the perfect stroller for us. Here is why:
*It is sturdy, solid, and smooth * It is easy to open and close * It is light and compact * The seat has multiple reclining positions, including flat for an infant. * Accommodates children weighing 1-40 lbs * The foot rest has multiple positions, including straight up to enclose a flat laying infant * It has a three and five point harness system * The seat and siding seems very comfortable and cozy * It has nice, high handle bars * A nice big canopy with a peak a boo window * A basket underneath to hold the basics *
Sure... it doesn't have a big basket, it doesn't have a cup holder for the baby, it doesn't have all the bells and whistles. But as I said before, I like simple and functional. I will be able to use this for trips to the zoo or park, for traveling, or for walks around the neighborhood. In almost 25 years, Nathan and I have yet to show our selves as runners, and I don't see us doing a lot of off roading. If that changes... we'll look into getting a more rugged stroller. But until then... I'm confident this stroller will meet our needs and serve Baby M well.
At the risk of making this post too long... I'm also going to mention a swing that I think I have fallen in love with. I say think because I have not seen one in person. BUT this swing once again goes along with my philosophy of simple and functional. See it here. It is the Arm's Reach Beautiful Sleeper Cocoon Sleeper. There's no music, no 'nature' sounds, no engine. It is simply a swing. It moves in a more gentle, natural motion. And notice how cozy! Most of the reviews that did not rave about this swing, stated that their baby just didn't take to it, which is the case with standard swings. I'm willing to give it a shot considering I have yet to be impressed by any of the standard swings on the market.
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
PT
I had my first physical therapy appointment today. My PT is great, and feels confident she can help me get this straightened out. She found significant gapping on the left side of my pelvis compared to the right side. Our plan is to strengthen the muscles so that the weight of the baby is being supported by my butt more so than all on my pelvis. I wish I could be going to both the chiropractor and the physical therapist. The chiropractor successfully took care of my lower back pain and can fix any misalignments, while the physical therapy strengthens the muscles for proper weight distribution. It would be great having both treatments working together, unfortunately, we just don't have the resources to do both right now. But that's life.
We certainly don't have two feet of snow, but we are getting some significant snow fall today and tomorrow. Only an inch or two has come down so far, but the roads are quickly getting slick. So I'll be staying inside the rest of the day!
OH... and Nathan finally got to feel the baby moving. Yesterday morning I laid in bed reading while Nathan continued to snooze. The baby kept moving and kicking. I was hesitant to wake Nathan because every other time we tried... the baby would either stop moving or it wouldn't be strong enough for Nathan to feel. Finally, I thought... I'm going to try again. With his eyes still closed, Nathan put his hand on my belly. Sure enough... we got a nice strong kick! I looked over at Nathan and his eyes popped open real big. It was a nice way to start our day.
We certainly don't have two feet of snow, but we are getting some significant snow fall today and tomorrow. Only an inch or two has come down so far, but the roads are quickly getting slick. So I'll be staying inside the rest of the day!
OH... and Nathan finally got to feel the baby moving. Yesterday morning I laid in bed reading while Nathan continued to snooze. The baby kept moving and kicking. I was hesitant to wake Nathan because every other time we tried... the baby would either stop moving or it wouldn't be strong enough for Nathan to feel. Finally, I thought... I'm going to try again. With his eyes still closed, Nathan put his hand on my belly. Sure enough... we got a nice strong kick! I looked over at Nathan and his eyes popped open real big. It was a nice way to start our day.
Monday, February 8, 2010
Saturday, February 6, 2010
Nanny Kelly
You know how back in the day, people used to acquire last names based on their occupation... like Shoemaker or Smith. Well I have acquired a pre-first name based on my occupation. Nanny Kelly. Linda, Anya's mom, has been calling me Nanny Kelly for quite some time now. I believe she often uses this when she's talking about me to her family or friends or boss. And Anya now calls me Nanny. I love it. I really thinks its sweet. But today Nathan and I were walking through Target and hear, "Hi Nanny Kelly!" Ha. Seriously. And the funny part, I didn't think twice about it until the person I ran into asked if it bothered me being called Nanny Kelly. Apparently Nanny Kelly is sticking. This person is actually someone who I may also soon be nannying for... which will make the third person I've nannied/regularly babysat for who works for the Midland County ESA. I'd definitely say I'm making a name for myself in Midland. :)
Friday, February 5, 2010
Sleep
I just wanted to let you all know that I slept much better last night. I'm thinking it was the restless back that was keeping me up. The pelvic joint pain is very painful when I roll over and get up, but not when I'm still... therefore I wouldn't think it would really cause me to lose much sleep. And while it is very painful... I can tolerate it at its current state. In hopes of keeping it from progressing... I did find a great PT today! The receptionist actually told me she has a lot of experience in helping women dealing with this issue. Yay! And I ordered the support band that my midwife also recommended. So hopefully we'll get this under control soon.
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Pelvic Joint Pain
This pregnancy has been wonderful! No but's. I love it. However, last night I had a quite a rough night. I believe I mentioned the pelvic joint pain that I've been dealing with. Well my midwife warned it will get worse... and it has. Last night, I was in bed asleep by 10:30, ready to get a full night's sleep. I woke up around 1:30 or so to go the bathroom.
Let me pause and explain the pain. So far, I only have the significant pain after I've been laying down. Whether I have been laying down for 10 minutes or 5 hours, when I go to get up, I have severe grinding pain in my left hip joint and in my front pelvis area. I can put very little weight on the left side, and any amount of weight is very painful. Standing on one foot to get dressed is nearly impossible. After about 20 minutes or so, it simply becomes sore. This is believed to be caused likely from a combination of pelvis misalignment and too much or great sensitivity to the hormones that cause the pelvis to relax and separate.
When I went back to bed I tossed and turned... and with every turn came the pain. The temp in the house was at 68 and I was still sweating without covers. And on top of that... I had a restless back. Two or three times before I became pregnant I had issues with having restless arms, like restless leg syndrome. Its hard to describe accept that it feels like something kind of hurting but horribly annoying digging around inside your arm. Well... I had this in my upper back from shoulder to shoulder. All I wanted to do was lay flat on my back, but they say that laying on your back for a significant amount of time during pregnancy can restrict blood flow to the baby.
Finally at 4 am, I had enough. So I got up and went into the living room and turned on the TV. I dozed for about twenty minutes in the 6 o'clock hour. The only comfortable chair for me anymore is the chair my parents got for the nursery. So the cat and I cuddled while watching Law and Order and American Idol until it was time to get ready for work.
Yuck. And my biggest concern is the fact that I still have 17 weeks for this to get worse. I'm going to start physical therapy next week in hopes if trying to get some relief so that we don't have to buy a lazy boy recliner for me to sleep in, as that's the only position at this point that I can comfortably sleep in. And if it does get worse it can pose complications during labor and delivery.
Now I don't want to sound like I am complaining, although I know I am. I still love being pregnant, and I will happily accept whatever pain comes with this process. It'll be completely worth it, and I still have a lot to be grateful for in terms of having such a wonderful pregnancy so far. But... again it shows how different our bodies respond to pregnancy .
And on a much brighter note... Baby has been moving like crazy today! I love it... it just never gets old. And Anya, who now will touch my belly when I ask where Nanny Kelly's baby is... started shushing my belly! How cute is that? I asked her if the baby was sleeping and she said Yes! Too sweet. <3
Let me pause and explain the pain. So far, I only have the significant pain after I've been laying down. Whether I have been laying down for 10 minutes or 5 hours, when I go to get up, I have severe grinding pain in my left hip joint and in my front pelvis area. I can put very little weight on the left side, and any amount of weight is very painful. Standing on one foot to get dressed is nearly impossible. After about 20 minutes or so, it simply becomes sore. This is believed to be caused likely from a combination of pelvis misalignment and too much or great sensitivity to the hormones that cause the pelvis to relax and separate.
When I went back to bed I tossed and turned... and with every turn came the pain. The temp in the house was at 68 and I was still sweating without covers. And on top of that... I had a restless back. Two or three times before I became pregnant I had issues with having restless arms, like restless leg syndrome. Its hard to describe accept that it feels like something kind of hurting but horribly annoying digging around inside your arm. Well... I had this in my upper back from shoulder to shoulder. All I wanted to do was lay flat on my back, but they say that laying on your back for a significant amount of time during pregnancy can restrict blood flow to the baby.
Finally at 4 am, I had enough. So I got up and went into the living room and turned on the TV. I dozed for about twenty minutes in the 6 o'clock hour. The only comfortable chair for me anymore is the chair my parents got for the nursery. So the cat and I cuddled while watching Law and Order and American Idol until it was time to get ready for work.
Yuck. And my biggest concern is the fact that I still have 17 weeks for this to get worse. I'm going to start physical therapy next week in hopes if trying to get some relief so that we don't have to buy a lazy boy recliner for me to sleep in, as that's the only position at this point that I can comfortably sleep in. And if it does get worse it can pose complications during labor and delivery.
Now I don't want to sound like I am complaining, although I know I am. I still love being pregnant, and I will happily accept whatever pain comes with this process. It'll be completely worth it, and I still have a lot to be grateful for in terms of having such a wonderful pregnancy so far. But... again it shows how different our bodies respond to pregnancy .
And on a much brighter note... Baby has been moving like crazy today! I love it... it just never gets old. And Anya, who now will touch my belly when I ask where Nanny Kelly's baby is... started shushing my belly! How cute is that? I asked her if the baby was sleeping and she said Yes! Too sweet. <3
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
All Good News
My midwife appointment went very well. I gained 2 lbs, making my total weight gain 5 lbs. which we are pleased with at this point. Everything else checked out perfectly normal, and I'm measuring right at 22 weeks. I did mention the pelvic joint pain I've been having on the left side. I can no longer sit or lay on our couch and when I wake up during the night to go to the bathroom or to get out of bed... the pain is enough to keep me from putting much weight on it. After a few minutes... it works itself out, but stays a little on the sore side throughout the day. Denise said it is a little on the early side for that, but it will get worse. The pain is essentially bone grinding. But... I can handle it. No complaints here! And the lower back pain that was getting bad, is gone, thanks to the chiropractor. I've only gone three times, but it has helped tremendously! All good news here.
And tonight is a very special night in our home. Tonight is the return of Lost for its final season. Yes, its sad that Lost is considered a special night, but it is. The freelancer for the paper is also a Lost fan, so he'll be joining us this evening, as well. {Which is really good for me... Nathan can get all his Lost talk out of his system with Neil instead of me!}
And tonight is a very special night in our home. Tonight is the return of Lost for its final season. Yes, its sad that Lost is considered a special night, but it is. The freelancer for the paper is also a Lost fan, so he'll be joining us this evening, as well. {Which is really good for me... Nathan can get all his Lost talk out of his system with Neil instead of me!}
Grilled cheese
Even though my midwife appointments last a whole five minutes... I really enjoy them. I count down from one to the next. I guess I just enjoy the reassurance that everything looks good. And hearing that baby's heart beat never gets old. I found out yesterday that my appointment for next Monday had to be rescheduled... luckily it was rescheduled for today. Yay! I'm not sure whether or not Nathan will be able to make this one (he has made every other appointment... one plus of his job.) But... as always... I can't wait.
Baby has been moving like crazy these days, and they are becoming much stronger. I can often feel the movements from the outside of my belly, but Nathan has yet to catch one of these. I imagine it'll be any day now. And the baby is moving a lot more during the day and when I'm moving around, not just when I am sitting down or resting. I have still not had any significant cravings. In my first trimester I craved protein, either meat or eggs. But I have found myself eating the same thing over and over throughout the week... Grilled cheese or I'll snack on cheese and turkey pepperoni. I had been using American cheese, but I decided to choose a variety to keep hand that was lower in sodium and higher in protein than American. And this week... I discovered how delicious the turkey pepperoni is on a grilled cheese. Oh and the only bread we eat now is Arnolds Sandwich Thins. They are 100% whole wheat. 100 calories, 1 g fat, 5 g dietary fiber, 5 g protein, and no high fructose corn syrup. Nathan and I absolutely refuse to buy a lot of things containing HFCS, but especially bread! So I think these sandwich thins have helped keep the carb count low while offering the nutrition of whole wheat. And I have found myself choosing much blander foods. I don't know why... its just what I end up wanting. We'll see what my weight gain has been since my last appointment, three weeks ago.
And Nathan had Sunday and Monday off this week. So we made a little run down to Grand Blanc for Panera and a movie. Panera is a rare treat these days... and it was just nice to do something special on Nathan's day off. Sometimes... the only way for him to be off is to leave town. So we did and had a great time.
I'll add another brief post this afternoon with the results of today's appointment.
Baby has been moving like crazy these days, and they are becoming much stronger. I can often feel the movements from the outside of my belly, but Nathan has yet to catch one of these. I imagine it'll be any day now. And the baby is moving a lot more during the day and when I'm moving around, not just when I am sitting down or resting. I have still not had any significant cravings. In my first trimester I craved protein, either meat or eggs. But I have found myself eating the same thing over and over throughout the week... Grilled cheese or I'll snack on cheese and turkey pepperoni. I had been using American cheese, but I decided to choose a variety to keep hand that was lower in sodium and higher in protein than American. And this week... I discovered how delicious the turkey pepperoni is on a grilled cheese. Oh and the only bread we eat now is Arnolds Sandwich Thins. They are 100% whole wheat. 100 calories, 1 g fat, 5 g dietary fiber, 5 g protein, and no high fructose corn syrup. Nathan and I absolutely refuse to buy a lot of things containing HFCS, but especially bread! So I think these sandwich thins have helped keep the carb count low while offering the nutrition of whole wheat. And I have found myself choosing much blander foods. I don't know why... its just what I end up wanting. We'll see what my weight gain has been since my last appointment, three weeks ago.
And Nathan had Sunday and Monday off this week. So we made a little run down to Grand Blanc for Panera and a movie. Panera is a rare treat these days... and it was just nice to do something special on Nathan's day off. Sometimes... the only way for him to be off is to leave town. So we did and had a great time.
I'll add another brief post this afternoon with the results of today's appointment.
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